Welcome to the Hilom Collective

đ¸ Salamat for saying yes
Youâve entered a space that was always waiting for youâ
where your inner child can be seen,
your ancestors can breathe easier,
and your spirit can rest in kapwaâshared belonging.
You are now part of The Hilom Collective: The only Filipino American healing community where you can continue your inner child journey every month â so you donât fall back into old patterns.
Before you step inside, take a slow breath.
Pause. Feel into your body.
Let yourself listen deeply.
đżWays We Care for This Space
By joining us, you honor these understandings that keep this community tender, honest, and safe:
⨠This space is not a substitute for therapy.
Our teachings, rituals, and workshops are soul-tending practicesâdeeply nourishing, but not replacements for mental health treatment or group therapy.
If you are navigating trauma or a mental health condition, please walk alongside a trained professional.
⨠If you feel overwhelmedâpause.
Strong emotions may arise. Thatâs natural. Healing stirs what has been buried.
If you begin to feel flooded or unsafe in your body, stop and tend to yourself.
Seek the support of a licensed counselor before continuing.
Websites:
đľđ https://www.silakbo.ph/help (List of resources in the Philippines)
đ www.therapinay.com (List of healers/therapists in the U.S. and the diaspora)
⨠If you are in active addiction.
It may be difficult to access the deeper tenderness this work invites.
We ask that you seek support to regulate and stabilize before engaging here.
This space is not for magical bypassingâbut for rooted presence, humility, and care.
⨠This work is powerful, but not magical.
It may feel therapeutic, but it is not a potion or promise to fix everything.
It is a gentle return to your inner knowing, guided by kapwa and ancestral remembering.
Come with willingness, readiness, and discernment.
⨠Inner child healing requires consistency.
This is not a one-time act, but a sacred practice of return.
Presence, not perfection, is what lets the medicine reach you.
đź What Awaits You
⨠Monthly healing circles for your inner child
⨠Teachings rooted in kapwa, loob, and kalikasan
⨠Rituals of remembranceâstorytelling, offerings, rest
⨠A community of kapatids returning to worthiness
đ Next Steps
1. Check your email (and junk or promotions folders) for your login details to Skoolâwhere our community lives.
2. Arrive as you are. Joy, grief, confusion, longingâall belong.
đż You belong. You are remembered. You are carried.
May this community be a daloyâa flowing river of healingâ
so that the child within you,
and the ancestors behind you,
may both find rest in your becoming.